Deciding to move yourself or a loved one into a residential or nursing home is never easy. It’s a decision often born from necessity and love by family members who can find the demands of caregiving overwhelming. This heartfelt journey can be filled with worry, but it’s also a step towards ensuring the best possible care for you and your loved one.

Recognising the Right Time

Waiting for the “perfect” moment might leave you and your loved one struggling more than necessary. Let’s take a moment to imagine – perhaps you’ve noticed your mum having more falls, like when she tripped over the garden hose last week. Or maybe you’ve seen your dad not eating well, like when you found that same bowl of soup in the fridge for three days straight. These signs can be worrisome and indicate it might be time to explore care options.

Listening to your instincts can be crucial. Recognising these signs early can prevent crises and ensure your loved one receives the necessary care and support.

Getting a Care Needs Assessment

The first step in finding the right care home is to get a Care Needs Assessment. This assessment, typically provided by your local council, will help you understand the level of care your loved one needs. It’s an opportunity to discuss their needs in detail with a professional, covering everything from daily living activities to medical requirements.

Once you have this assessment, you can use the resources on our website to find a suitable care home. We provide comprehensive guides and checklists to help you make an informed decision, ensuring the care home you choose can meet your loved one’s specific needs.

Signs That It’s Time to Consider a Care Home

Here are some indicators that a care home might be the best option:

– Safety Concerns: It’s no longer safe for them to live alone, or they feel unsafe. For instance, your aunt might have mentioned feeling uneasy at night, worried about navigating the stairs in the dark.

– Unsuitable Home Environment: Their home may have become unsuitable for their needs. Think of Mr Johnson down the road, who struggled with the steep stairs in his quaint but impractical old house.

– Increasing Confusion and Distress: Due to dementia, they might forget familiar places, like when your neighbour couldn’t remember how to get back home from her usual walk in the park.

– Need for Constant Supervision: They require constant supervision due to health issues. Picture Uncle Bob, who has mobility problems and had a close call with a fall in the kitchen.

– Need for Companionship: They would benefit from consistent companionship, as loneliness can harm both physical and mental health. Remember how Mrs Evans perked up when she moved to a care home and started participating in group activities?

– Hygiene and Nutrition Issues: They’re having trouble maintaining good hygiene and nutrition. Like when you noticed your dad hadn’t changed his clothes for a few days or was skipping meals.

– Need for Specialised Care: They need specialised care that’s hard to provide at home. Think about your friend’s mum who needed advanced medical equipment for her condition.

– Carer Overwhelm: If you, as the main carer, feel overwhelmed, it might be time to consider residential care. I remember how exhausted my neighbour, Joan, looked before she decided to seek help for her husband’s care. It was a tough decision, but it gave her the respite she desperately needed.

If you’re unsure, a free care needs assessment from the local council can help determine if your loved one is safe to stay at home or if it’s time to move to a care home. This professional evaluation provides peace of mind, knowing you’re making an informed decision based on expert advice.

Exploring Respite Stays

If you’re still uncertain, consider a short-term respite stay. This can give your loved one a chance to experience the care home environment and see if it’s a good fit. It’s a great way to ensure that the transition is smooth and comfortable for everyone involved.

We’re Here to Help

At Buckland Care Homes, we understand the emotional weight of these decisions and are here to support you every step of the way. Our compassionate team is dedicated to providing exceptional care and making the transition as smooth as possible for both you and your loved one.

Ready to Take the Next Step?

Contact us today to schedule a visit to one of our care homes or to speak with one of our experienced advisers. We’re here to help you find the best solution for your loved one’s needs.