The festive season is a magical time, full of traditions, laughter, and the warmth of being together with family and friends. It’s a chance to reconnect with loved ones, often spending more time with them than at other points in the year. But amidst the joy and bustle of Christmas, it’s also a time when subtle changes in a relative’s behaviour or abilities might stand out – things you might not have noticed before during quick visits or phone calls.
For some, these changes could be early signs of dementia. It might be a forgotten name here or a misplaced item there, or perhaps confusion during a once-loved family tradition. These little signs can raise big questions and naturally bring up feelings of concern. But catching these signs early means you can take steps to support your loved one and ensure they get the help they need.
In this guide, we’ll share common symptoms of dementia to watch out for over the festive period, practical tips for offering support, and resources like the Alzheimer’s Society’s Dementia Symptoms Checklist to help you take the next steps with confidence and compassion. Because while Christmas is about creating memories, it’s also about protecting those who mean the most to us.
Common Signs of Dementia to Watch For
Spending extended time together can highlight behaviours that might otherwise go unnoticed. Here are some key signs:
• Memory Problems: Repeatedly forgetting recent conversations, asking the same questions, or misplacing items more often than usual.
• Confusion in Familiar Settings: Becoming disoriented in places they know well or struggling with holiday traditions they usually love.
• Difficulty with Language: Struggling to find the right words, following conversations, or mixing up names.
• Changes in Mood or Behaviour: Displaying increased irritability, anxiety, withdrawal, or uncharacteristic behaviours.
• Challenges with Daily Tasks: Finding it hard to manage activities they’ve always handled- like cooking, decorating, or managing holiday cards.
• Reduced Concentration: Having trouble keeping up with conversations, losing focus on tasks, or appearing distracted.
• Misjudging Situations: Struggling to gauge time, over- or underestimating distances, or making inappropriate decisions for social settings.
Use a Symptom Checklist
If you’re unsure whether what you’re observing might be linked to dementia, tools like the Alzheimer’s Society’s Dementia Symptoms Checklist can provide clarity. This simple tool helps identify patterns and gives you useful insights to share with a GP if needed.
How You Can Support Your Loved One
If you notice signs of dementia, there are practical steps you can take to ensure your loved one feels supported:
1. Create a Calm and Familiar Space
Too much noise or activity can overwhelm someone with dementia. Keep the atmosphere calm and offer a quiet area for them to retreat to if needed.
2. Stick to Routines
Consistency can be reassuring. Try to maintain familiar routines, even during the festive excitement.
3. Involve Them in Simple, Enjoyable Activities
From looking through photo albums to helping with light holiday tasks, meaningful activities can help them feel engaged and included.
4. Encourage Early Support
If you suspect dementia, encourage your loved one to visit their GP. Early diagnosis opens up opportunities for treatment, planning, and support services.
5. Be Patient and Reassuring
Confusion or forgetfulness can be frustrating for both you and your loved one. Approach these moments with kindness and understanding to help ease their anxiety.
6. Foster a Sense of Belonging
Include your loved one in group activities where they feel valued but not overwhelmed. Singing carols or enjoying quiet moments by the fire together can create meaningful connections.
7. Plan for Down Time
The festive season can be overstimulating. Ensure there’s time for rest and quiet moments to recharge.
Tips for Conversations
Approaching the topic of memory or cognitive changes can feel daunting. Here’s how to have a supportive conversation:
• Choose the Right Time and Place: Find a quiet, relaxed moment to bring up your concerns.
• Be Compassionate: Focus on your observations, not judgments. Use gentle language like, “I’ve noticed you’ve been a bit forgetful recently. Have you noticed this too?”
• Offer Reassurance: Remind them they’re not alone and that support is available.
• Involve a Trusted Friend or Family Member: Sometimes a second perspective can make the conversation feel less intimidating.
The Importance of Early Action
Spotting dementia early means you can access resources and support to help your loved one live well with the condition. Tools like the symptom checklist and guidance from organisations such as the Alzheimer’s Society can help you feel more prepared for the next steps.
Buckland Care is Here to Help
At Buckland Care, we understand the emotional and practical challenges that come with supporting a loved one through dementia. Our homes are built on compassion and tailored care to ensure every resident feels safe, valued, and supported.
Whether you need advice, respite care, or long-term support, our team is here to guide you every step of the way. Contact your nearest Buckland Care home or visit our website for more information.
Let’s ensure this festive season is full of love and understanding – for everyone. Together, we can create a season of comfort and connection that truly supports those we care for.